When people interact, as soon as the other party makes you uncomfortable, you must immediately draw the line. You need to understand that at this moment, it is not about adhering to traditional virtues. Why are you already uncomfortable? You must give them timely feedback on what exactly they did to upset you. I cannot accept that at all. It is crucial to be clear; once you are clear, if that person still wants to interact with you in the future, they will know that this issue cannot touch them, that this matter must not make them anxious. This creates everyone's sense of boundaries. The term "create" is extremely neutral. Don't end up just enduring it, thinking can you endure it or not, and then they say, "Hey, why are you like this?" In reality, you’d slap them dead. Therefore, many problems are self-created. We need to shape our own sense of boundaries well. Do not say anything about high emotional intelligence. What does high emotional intelligence mean? It means when I'm happy, I can quickly make them feel my happiness; when I'm not happy, I can also let them know in the first second that I'm not happy. That is emotional intelligence. What is the most important thing about emotional intelligence? Timely expression, not just enduring it. Many people think they are emotionally intelligent by just appeasing others; that’s called being cheap.

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